No te tomes nada personalmente

EL SEGUNDO ACUERDO

No te tomes nada personalmente

Los tres acuerdos siguientes nacen, en realidad, del primero. El Segundo Acuerdo consiste en no tomarte nada personalmente.

Suceda lo que suceda a tu alrededor, no te lo tomes personalmente. Utilizando un ejemplo anterior, si te encuentro en la calle y te digo: «¡Eh, eres un estúpido!», sin conocerte, no me refiero a ti, sino a mí.

Si te lo tomas personalmente, tal vez te creas que eres un estúpido. Quizá te digas a ti mismo: «¿Cómo lo sabe? ¿Acaso es clarividente o es que todos pueden ver lo estúpido que soy?».

Te lo tomas personalmente porque estás de acuerdo con cualquier cosa que se diga. Y tan pronto como estás de acuerdo, el veneno te recorre y te encuentras atrapado en el sueño  del infierno. El motivo de que estés atrapado es lo que llamamos «la importancia personal». La importancia personal, o el tomarse las cosas personalmente, es la expresión máxima del egoísmo, porque consideramos que todo gira a nuestro alrededor.  Durante  el período de nuestra educación (o de nuestra domesticación), aprendimos a tomarnos todas las cosas  de  forma  personal. Creemos que somos responsables de todo. ¡Yo, yo, yo y siempre yo!

Nada de lo que los demás hacen es por ti. Lo hacen por ellos mismos. Todos vivimos en nuestro propio sueño, en nuestra propia mente; los demás están en un mundo completamente distinto de aquel en que vive cada uno de nosotros. Cuando nos tomamos personalmente lo que alguien nos dice, suponemos que sabe lo que hay en nuestro mundo e intentamos imponérselo por encima del suyo.

Incluso cuando una situación parece muy personal, por ejemplo cuando alguien te insulta directamente, eso no tiene nada que ver contigo. Lo que esa persona dice, lo que hace y las opiniones que expresa responden a los acuerdos que ha establecido en su propia mente. Su punto de vista surge de toda la programación que recibió durante su domesticación.

Si alguien te da su opinión y te dice: «¡Oye, estás muy gordo!», no te lo tomes personalmente, porque la verdad es que se refiere a sus propios sentimientos, creencias y opiniones. Esa persona intentó enviarte su veneno, y si te lo tomas personalmente, lo recoges y se convierte en tuyo. Tomarse las cosas personalmente te convierte en una presa fácil para esos depredadores, los magos negros. Les resulta fácil atraparte con una simple opinión, después te alimentan con el veneno que quieren, y como te lo tomas personalmente, te lo tragas sin rechistar.

Te comes toda su basura emocional y la conviertes en tu propia basura. Pero si no te lo tomas personalmente, serás inmune a todo veneno aunque te encuentres en medio  del  infierno.  Esa inmunidad es un don de este acuerdo.

Cuando te tomas las cosas personalmente, te sientes ofendido y reaccionas defendiendo tus creencias y creando conflictos. Haces una montaña de un grano de arena porque sientes la necesidad de tener razón y de que los demás estén equivocados. También te esfuerzas en demostrarles que tienes razón dando tus propias opiniones. Del mismo modo, cualquier cosa que sientas o hagas no es más que una proyección de tu propio sueño personal, un reflejo de tus propios acuerdos. Lo que dices, lo que haces y las opiniones que tienes se basan en los acuerdos que tú has establecido, y no tienen nada que ver conmigo.

Lo que pienses de mí no es importante para mí y no me lo tomo personalmente. Cuando la gente me dice: «Miguel, eres el mejor», no me lo tomo personalmente, y tampoco lo hago cuando me dice:

«Miguel, eres el peor». Sé que cuando estés contento, me dirás: «¡Miguel, eres un ángel!». Pero cuando estés enfadado conmigo, me dirás: «¡Oh, Miguel, eres un demonio! Eres repugnante. ¿Cómo puedes decir esas cosas?». Ninguno de los dos comentarios me afecta porque yo sé lo que soy. No necesito que me acepten. No necesito que nadie me diga: «¡Miguel, qué bien lo haces!», o: «¿Cómo eres capaz de hacer eso?».

No, no me lo tomo personalmente. Pienses lo que pienses, sientas lo que sientas, sé que se trata de tu problema y no del mío. Es tu manera de ver el mundo. No me lo tomo de un modo personal porque te refieres a ti mismo y no a mí. Los demás tienen sus propias opiniones según su sistema de creencias, de modo que nada de lo que piensen de mí estará realmente relacionado conmigo, sino con ellos.

Es posible que incluso me digas: «Miguel, lo que dices me duele». Pero lo que te duele no es lo que yo digo, sino las heridas que tienes y que yo he rozado con lo que he dicho. Eres tú mismo quien se hace daño. No me lo puedo tomar personalmente en modo alguno, y no porque no crea ni confíe en ti, sino porque sé que ves el mundo con distintos ojos, con los tuyos. Creas una película entera en tu mente, y en ella tú eres el director, el productor y el protagonista. Todos los demás tenemos papeles secundarios. Es tu película.

La manera en que ves esa película se basa en los acuerdos que has establecido con la vida. Tu punto de vista es algo personal tuyo. No es la verdad de nadie más que de ti. Por consiguiente, si te enfadas conmigo, sé que eso está relacionado contigo. Yo soy la excusa para que tú te enfades. Y te enfadas porque tienes miedo, porque te enfrentas a tu miedo. Si no tuvieras miedo, no te enfadarías conmigo en modo alguno. Si no tuvieras miedo, no me odiarías en modo alguno. Si no tuvieras miedo, no estarías triste ni celoso en modo alguno.

Si vives sin miedo, si amas, no hay lugar para ninguna de esas emociones. Si no tienes ninguna de esas emociones, lógicamente te sientes bien. Cuando te sientes bien, todo lo que te rodea está bien. Cuando todo lo que te rodea es magnífico, todo te hace feliz. Amas todo lo que te rodea porque te amas a ti mismo, porque te gusta como eres, porque estás contento contigo mismo, porque te sientes feliz con tu vida. Estás satisfecho con la película que tú mismo produces y con los acuerdos que has establecido con la vida. Estás en paz y eres feliz. Vives en ese estado de dicha en el que todo es verdaderamente maravilloso y bello. En ese estado de dicha, estableces una relación de amor con todo lo que percibes en todo momento.

Sea lo que sea lo que la gente haga, piense o diga, no te lo tomes personalmente. Si te dice que eres maravilloso, no lo dice por ti. Tú sabes que eres maravilloso. No es necesario que otras personas te lo digan para creerlo. No te tomes nada personalmente. Aun cuando alguien agarrase una pistola y te disparase en la cabeza, no sería nada personal. Incluso hasta ese extremo.

Ni siquiera las opiniones que tienes sobre ti mismo son necesariamente verdad; por consiguiente, no tienes la menor necesidad de tomarte cualquier cosa que oigas en tu propia mente personalmente. La mente tiene la capacidad de hablarse a sí misma, pero también tiene la capacidad de escuchar la información que está disponible de otras esferas. Quizás a veces, cuando oyes una voz en tu mente, te preguntes de dónde proviene. Es posible que esta voz provenga de otra realidad en la que existan seres vivos con una mente muy similar a la humana. Los toltecas denominaron a estos seres «aliados». En Europa, África y la India los llamaron «dioses».

Nuestra mente también existe en el nivel  de  los  dioses, también vive en esa realidad y es capaz de percibirla. La mente ve con los ojos y percibe la realidad de cuando estamos despiertos. Pero también ve y percibe sin los ojos, aunque la razón apenas es consciente de esta percepción. La mente vive en más de una dimensión. Es posible que en ocasiones tengas ideas que no se originan en tu mente, pero las percibes con ella. Tienes derecho a creer o no lo que esas voces te dicen y a no tomártelo personalmente. Tenemos la opción de creer o no las voces que oímos en nuestra propia mente, del mismo modo en que decidimos qué creer y qué acuerdos tomar en  el  sueño  del planeta.

La mente también es capaz de hablarse y escucharse a sí misma. Tu mente está dividida, igual que lo está tu cuerpo. Del mismo modo en que puedes estrechar con una mano tu otra mano y sentirla, la mente puede hablar consigo misma. Una parte de tu mente habla y otra escucha. Cuando muchas partes de tu mente hablan todas al mismo tiempo, se origina un gran problema. A esto lo llamamos mitote, ¿recuerdas?

Podemos comparar el mitote con un enorme mercado en el que miles de personas hablan y hacen trueques a la vez. Cada una tiene pensamientos y sentimientos diferentes; cada una tiene un punto de vista distinto. Todos los acuerdos que hemos establecido – la programación de la mente – no son necesariamente compatibles entre sí. Cada acuerdo es como un ser vivo independiente; tiene su propia personalidad y su propia voz. Hay acuerdos incompatibles, que se contradicen los unos a los otros, y el conflicto se va extendiendo hasta que estalla una gran guerra en la mente.

El mitote es la razón por la que los seres humanos apenas saben lo que quieren, cómo lo quieren o cuándo lo quieren. No están de acuerdo con ellos mismos porque unas partes de la mente quieren una cosa y otras quieren exactamente lo contrario.

Una parte de la mente pone objeciones a determinados pensamientos y actos y otra los apoya. Todos estos pequeños seres vivientes crean conflictos internos porque están vivos y cada uno tiene su propia voz. Únicamente si hacemos un inventario de nuestros acuerdos destaparemos todos los conflictos de la mente, y con el tiempo llegaremos a extraer orden del caos del mitote.

No te tomes nada personalmente porque, si lo haces, te expones a sufrir por nada. Los seres humanos somos adictos al sufrimiento en diferentes niveles y distintos grados; nos apoyamos los unos a los otros para mantener esta adicción. Hemos acordado ayudarnos mutuamente a sufrir. Si tienes la necesidad de que te maltraten, será fácil que los demás lo hagan. Del mismo modo, si estás con personas que necesitan Sufrir, algo en ti hará que las maltrates. Es como si llevasen un cartel en la espalda que dijera: «Patéame, por favor». Piden una justificación para su sufrimiento. Su adicción al sufrimiento no es más que un acuerdo que refuerzan a diario.

Vayas donde vayas, encontrarás a gente que te mentirá, pero a medida que tu conciencia se expanda, descubrirás que tú también te mientes a ti mismo. No esperes que los demás te digan la verdad, porque ellos también se mienten a sí mismos. Tienes que confiar en ti y decidir si crees o no lo que alguien te dice.

Cuando realmente vemos a los demás tal como son sin tomárnoslo personalmente, lo que hagan o digan no nos dañará. Aunque los demás te mientan, no importa. Te mienten porque tienen miedo. Tienen miedo de que descubras que no  son perfectos. Quitarse la máscara social resulta  doloroso.  Si  los demás dicen una cosa, pero hacen otra y tú no prestas atención a sus actos, te mientes a ti mismo. Pero si eres veraz contigo mismo, te ahorrarás mucho dolor emocional. Decirte la verdad  quizá resulte doloroso, pero no necesitas aferrarte al dolor. La curación está en camino; que las cosas te vayan mejor es sólo cuestión de tiempo.

Si alguien no te trata con amor ni respeto, que se aleje de ti es un regalo. Si esa persona no se va, lo más  probable  es  que soportes muchos años de sufrimiento con ella. Que  se  marche quizá resulte doloroso durante un tiempo, pero finalmente tu corazón sanará. Entonces, elegirás lo que de verdad quieres. Descubrirás que, para elegir correctamente, más que confiar en los demás, es necesario que confíes en ti mismo.

Cuando no tomarte nada personalmente se convierta en un hábito firme y sólido, te evitarás muchos disgustos en la vida. Tu rabia, tus celos y tu envidia desaparecerán, y si no te tomas nada personalmente, incluso tu tristeza desaparecerá.

Si conviertes el Segundo Acuerdo en un hábito, descubrirás que nada podrá devolverte al infierno. Una gran cantidad de libertad surge cuando no nos  tomamos  nada personalmente.  Serás inmune a los magos  negros y ningún hechizo te afectará, por muy fuerte que sea. El mundo entero puede contar chismes sobre ti, pero si no te los tomas personalmente, serás inmune a  ellos.  Alguien puede enviarte veneno emocional de forma intencionada, pero si no te lo tomas personalmente, no te lo tragarás. Cuando no tomas el veneno emocional, se vuelve más nocivo para el que lo envía, pero no para ti.

Ya puedes ver cuán importante es este acuerdo. No tomar nada personalmente te ayuda a romper muchos hábitos y costumbres que te mantienen atrapado en el sueño del infierno y te causan un sufrimiento innecesario. Bastará con practicar el Segundo Acuerdo para que empieces a romper docenas de pequeños acuerdos que te hacen sufrir. Y si practicas además el Primer Acuerdo, romperás el 75 por ciento de estos pequeños acuerdos que te mantienen atrapado en el infierno.

Escribe este acuerdo en un papel y engánchalo en  la  nevera para recordarlo en todo momento: No te tomes nada personalmente.

Cuando te acostumbres a no tomarte nada personalmente, no necesitarás depositar tu confianza en lo que hagan o digan los demás. Bastará con que confíes en ti mismo para elegir con responsabilidad. Nunca eres responsable de los  actos  de  los demás; sólo eres responsable de ti mismo. Cuando comprendas esto, de verdad, y te niegues a tomarte las cosas personalmente, será muy difícil que los comentarios insensibles o los actos negligentes de los demás te hieran.

Si mantienes este acuerdo, viajarás por todo el mundo con el corazón abierto por completo y nadie te herirá. Dirás: «Te amo», sin miedo a que te rechacen o te ridiculicen. Pedirás lo que necesites. Dirás sí o dirás no – lo que tú decidas – sin culparte ni juzgarte. Siempre puedes seguir a tu corazón. Si lo haces, aunque estés en medio del infierno, experimentarás felicidad y paz interior. Permanecerás en tu estado de dicha y el infierno no te afectará en absoluto.

Why did the West go to Hell? (Ia): A general overview (a)

Why did the West go to Hell (Ia): A general overview (a)

by Virapala

[Why did the West go to Hell attempts to be a logical and historical explanation of the genesis of today’s Absurdistan: a world where you are evil if you say that pigs cannot fly. You can contact the author on virapala.merdeta.com]

Introduction

After some decades of thinking, reading and observing about the decadence of the Western civilization, I have decided to write my ideas about this topic. I started writing about the concept of rights, which went completely out of control producing four different long posts. I quickly realized that the topic of Western decline is so complex that there is the danger of the forest not being able to be seen for the trees.

So I have decided to write a general overview of the causes of decadence in Western civilization, trying to hide or summarize as many details as possible. The outcome has been this text, which is divided into two different posts. The text is  a bit long, a bit heavy in information and includes some claims that are not justified. My idea is to start from this general overview and write other texts to tie the loose ends and explain better the ideas presented here.

Why civilizations decline and fall

As another text will explain, all civilizations decline and fall because of the same reasons. These reasons are caused by a basic human contradiction: humans evolve individually but they live in society.  As a result, natural selection has shaped human nature to maximize individual fitness (defined as the ability to have as most descendants as possible) and this goes against a harmonious society because of the tragedy of the commons.

For example, males have evolved to maximize their individual reproduction. This means that their biological instincts make them to desire to have sex with every attractive woman they find. But this does not produce a good society because, if all men are competing for sex, they cooperate less, they focus less on work, and all series of conflicts are produced when men want to accumulate women or have sex with other men’s wives.

In short, the set of biological instincts wired in us by evolution is an insatiable beast. I imagine it as a roaring lion that wants to have all the resources (sex, money, status)  he can and to the hell with everybody else. I will call it «selfishness» or «selfish human instincts». In Christianity, it is called «original sin»: the innate tendency to engage in sin (in antisocial behavior). This will be explained more accurately in another text.

Of course, the complete actualization of these selfish human instincts is not possible because  everybody has these instincts inside him but not everybody can have all the resources in the world. So the complete actualization of the instincts of a person conflicts with the complete actualization of the instincts of another person, because they want the same resources.

As a result, the selfish instincts of people must be repressed to make living in society possible. They are repressed through two kinds of restrictions:

  • Practical restrictions. Selfish instincts are restricted because of practical aspects that make them impossible to completely actualize. For example, I can’t have sex with all women in the world because I don’t have the energy,  the money, the access to all women («that girl living on the mountains of Kazakhstan seems pretty cute!»), not all  women want to have sex with me and other practical aspects.
  • Cultural restrictions. Human culture has three mechanisms to restrict selfish  human instincts and encourage pro-social behaviors. These mechanisms are called «guilt», «shame» and «fear» in anthropology and will be analyzed in other texts. Even if I could, I wouldn’t have sex with my neighbor’s wife  because a) I would feel guilty of being such a scoundrel b) I would not want other people in the community to ostracize me and/or c) I would not want to be beaten by my neighbor or to be punished by the State.

So the lion (the set of selfish human instincts) is inside a cage with two kinds of bars that restrict his movements: practical restrictions and cultural restrictions, so he cannot harm others. Every person and every society lives in a continuous conflict between his selfish instincts and the restrictions to these instincts (called «repression» in psychology). This repression is necessary for a society to exist. As Sigmund Freud said: «The history of civilization is the history of the renunciation of instinct.»

However, the lion is always trying to escape his cage in all the manners possible and, to do so, he invents all kinds of strategies to take advantage of some defect in the bars of the cage. If some bars are weakened or removed, the lion takes advantage of this fact immediately.

Decadence starts when society reaches a high level of success and practical restrictions decrease (due to a  bigger power, prosperity or technology) so selfish human instincts can have a better actualization. For example, maybe I can now have sex with more women because better contraceptives and cheaper travel give me better access to women with less hassle («Yes, this is my first visit to Kazakhstan, mister officer. The travel is affordable now.»).

In this situation, the culture of a society changes so cultural restrictions are also relaxed (for example, adultery is decriminalized, divorce and free sex are encouraged, etc.) in order to allow this better actualization of human instincts. The cage has fewer practical and cultural bars so the lion (the set of selfish instincts) is allowed more freedom .

This creates a higher level of conflict and societal dysfunction because everybody is trying to actualize his selfish instincts more than before and this enters into conflict with the instincts of everybody else. As a result, the society ends up being conquered by other societies that repress better the individual instincts of their citizens so they function better as a society.

The success of these other societies will lead them to eventually removing some restrictions to the selfish instincts of their citizens so they start the cycle again. This is a cycle that repeats once and again in history. You see it in the Late Bronze Age collapse (it is obvious in the ancient conquest of Canaan by the Israelites, as narrated in the Bible), ancient Greece, ancient Rome, the Abbasid Empire and our modern Western civilization.

The insanity of the modern West

However, when we compare the decadence of the Western civilization to the decadence of other civilizations (say, the Roman Empire), we cannot help marveling about the insanity of our own decadence. For example, in a period of some few years,  Western civilization has «discovered» that some men are women in reality. This has been elevated as a self-evident truth and the ones who deny such an absurd proposition are labelled as immoral, fired or persecuted with the force of the law.  The late Romans, the late Greeks or the late Abbasids  had their dose of degeneracy, thank you very much, but they never reached such levels of insanity.

There are two reasons why the decadence of the Western civilization is much bigger and weirder than other decadences. In the modern West, the two bars that repress selfish human instincts (practical and cultural restrictions to selfishness) have been removed in a specially drastic way.

Starting with the practical restrictions,  the wealthier and more technologically advanced a civilization is, the more pronounced its decadence is, because it can remove practical restrictions to selfish human instincts better (this will be better explained in other texts). The West is incredibly wealthy and technologically advanced, due to the successive waves of the Industrial Revolution (whose last wave is the digital revolution). This removes many practical restrictions and allows the selfishness to express in unprecedented ways, not seen before in human history.

A relativistic civilization

However, in this series of texts, I want to focus on the second cause of the magnitude of the decadence of the Western civilization. This second cause is that the cultural restrictions of the modern West have also been relaxed in an unprecedented way to allow the expression of  selfishness in ways unseen in human history.

More specifically, in 5000 years of history, the Western civilization is the only one that has a relativistic ideology  as its official ideology (as its official religion, because we will see that ideology and religion are synonyms). This allows the biological selfishness to express in unprecedented ways.

This is a new event in the history of mankind, because something so absurd has never occurred to any other civilization before. How we ended up in such a dead end is only explained because of a strange chain of historical events, which will be explained along the line. For Christians like me, it is difficult to avoid the feeling that demonic forces were behind this chain of events, but this is going to be a historical and logical analysis, not a spiritual one.

We say that a concept is absolute if it is the same for everybody. A concept is relative if it is different for different people. A society or culture is absolutist if it is founded on absolute concepts. This is the only sane way to found a society and all enduring societies have been absolutist, with exception of the modern West and the societies that the modern West has managed to infect and pervert.

A culture is relativistic in theory if it claims to be founded on relative concepts. A culture is relativistic in practice if if claims to be founded on absolute concepts but these concepts are, in reality, relative. The modern West is a mixture of these two kinds of relativism.

The modern Western civilization is relativistic in theory with respect to the truth and morality. It is founded on the idea that different people have different opinions on truth and morality and these opinions are equally valid (we will see that this foundation is not true in reality, but this is the official argument). So there is no absolute truth or morality (which are independent from each person, and true for all people) or,  even if it existed, it would be impossible to discover. So the only way to take collective decisions is to count the different opinions and see which opinion is majority. As Argentinian writer Jorge Luis Borges said: «Democracy is an abuse of statistics». This, in reality, is not true (the important collective decisions are taken outside the democratic game, as we will see), but it is the official argument.

Western civilization is also relativistic in practice because it is founded on concepts like freedom, equality and rights, which are presented as absolute. But these concepts are relative, because the freedom/equality/right of a person is, in reality, the lack of freedom/equality/right of another person, as we will see. So these concepts are relative to the person being considered.

Three problems of relativism

The problems of relativism are well known. First, relativism in truth is self-refuting. The statement «Each truth is relative (different for each person)» claims to be a universal truth that applies to all people, that is, it is  an absolute statement that contradicts the very idea it is claiming.

In reality, this is the lesser of problems of relativism in Western civilization, because most people have lost the ability of thinking logically and they only emote and react to conditioning like Pavlov’s dogs. They don’t have any problem in having a contradictory worldview and, even if they could understand the contradiction, they would not give a dam.

The second problem of relativism is that it encourages selfishness and antisocial behavior, producing anarchotyranny. If freedom/equality/rights are paramount (which is always interpreted as «my freedom/equality/rights are paramount» because of the innate selfish bias of humans), I don’t have to think so much about other people. In addition, if I define my own truth and morality, I can define my morality to fit my selfishness. I am judge and jury.

«Yes, I abandoned my husband because the new man was more exciting, but I define my morality and I decide that I have the right to be happy. My kids? They are happy if I am happy. So this action was perfectly moral and, in fact, morally obligatory. About not committing adultery? These are tales of old church ladies. I don’t believe in any external moral authority: I believe in myself and being true to myself. Staying in an unhappy marriage would have meant not being true to myself. And my husband is sad now but it will be better for him to be with a woman who loves him. In fact, I am making him a favor.»

Men is not a rational animal: it is a rationalizing animal. He does what he wants and then finds reasons to justify his actions. With no external rule of conduct, he is judge and jury so he always finds a way to justify himself, to absolve his own selfish actions, whether by redefining morality or by using freedom/equality/rights as an alibi.

So the relativistic society gets more and more immoral and chaotic, with more conflict, a fight of everybody against everybody to express his selfish human instincts as much as he can. For example, England and Wales had 66% more population in 2001 than in 1898. But they had 4024% more rapes and 2630% more indecent assaults on women than in 1898.

In short, the relativism of Western civilization relaxes the cultural restrictions to selfish human instincts seen above. I can say to myself that I am not behaving badly because I define my truth and my morality and I define them in a way that they justify my behavior. I also define my bad behavior as a part of my freedom/equality/rights. So «guilt» and «shame» are removed, creating anarchy. Only «fear» (the fear of the State punishing me for my bad behavior) is left producing totalitarianism. As we will see, this is one of the roots of Western anarchotyranny.

The third problem of relativism is that it produces atomized societies. If different people have different concepts of the truth, they have three options: they enter into conflict with each other (anarchy, as we have just seen), they leave the State to solve the conflicts by force (tyranny, as we have just seen) or they separate from each other to decrease the level of conflict.  This separation can be physical or psychological (for example, lack of meaningful relationships). So, under the banner of the relativistic concept of freedom, the Western societies unravel. First, the societies turn into a set of communities  (see ethnic neighborhoods, posh woke real state) and then the communities unravel themselves. Families are more and more broken. People are more and more lonely.  Western societies resemble more and more a formless groups of atomized individuals with are safe and lonely in their relativistic existence and are only bound through transactional relationships or through the State. This was Rousseau’s dream and it is illustrated in the Youtube documentary «The Swedish theory of love», which I highly recommend.

There is a fourth problem of relativism and it is the most important to understand the evolution of Western society but this post is long enough, so it will be explained in the next post.


We saw in the previous post that the modern Western civilization is

  • relativistic in theory with respect to the truth and morality, which are claimed to be relative (different for each person).
  • relativistic in practice because it uses concepts like freedom, equality and rights. These concepts are relative, because the freedom/equality/right of a person is, in reality, the lack of freedom/equality/right of another person.

We have seen that the relativism of Western civilization causes societal problems like anarchy, tyranny and atomized societies.  But the main problem of the relativism in Western civilization is the one will be explained in next.

Political systems cannot be based on relativism

The main problem of relativism is that it is impossible to scale. Every man can adopt relativism in an individual manner (and, as we saw, this produces conflict, which causes anarchy, tyranny and atomized societies). But it is impossible to apply relativism in a collective manner.

To be more specific, it is impossible for a political system  to be based on relativism, as we are going to see.

This is because each political system is based on laws. The law should allow some things and forbid other things. Which things should the law allow or forbid? It should allow good things and forbid evil things so it needs a concept of good and evil that is publicly shared by the elite and authorities and, even better, by the entire population (even if they don’t feel this way in private, see Timur Kuran’s Private Truths, Public Lies).

This concept of the good and the evil upon which the law is based is the official ideology of the society, that is, its official religion, because a religion is a moral system that distinguishes good from evil (some of you will object to my use of the R word but, please, bear with me, this will be explained in another text and let’s not quarrel about names). In this sense, every country is a theocracy.

This official religion cannot be relativistic in theory (if there is no absolute truth and no absolute good, there is no reason to have laws that allow and forbid behaviors).

This official religion cannot be relativistic in practice either. For example the law cannot be founded on «freedom». It is common for politicians to say: «Our political system is founded on freedom», as if the relative concept of freedom was an absolute concept (the same for everybody). But there is no such thing as a political system founded on freedom because the freedom of somebody is the lack of freedom of somebody else.

My freedom to have private property is the lack of freedom of everybody else to use my property without my consent. Capitalist countries will allow the first freedom and will forbid the second one. Communist countries will do the opposite (in theory). But you cannot allow both freedoms at once. So there is not a political system based on freedom, the same way you cannot have a coin with one side.

In short, a political system  cannot be founded on relativist concepts, because the law is absolutist and not relativistic.

But we have said that the Western civilization is based on a relativistic ideology. So how is this possible? Are we contradicting ourselves?

The paradox of Western civilization

It is possible because relativism is the theoretical official religion of the Western civilization  but it is never put into practice in the political systems of this civilization. It is only used by the powers that be in a rhetorical, official and theoretical way  (in speeches, official documents  and,  more importantly, as a way of justifying policies and laws). But, as explained above, it cannot be applied in practice so it is not applied.

For example, in theory, all people in Western countries are free, equal and have the same rights. This statement is completely relativistic and completely theoretical.

But, in practice, some people are freer than others, some people are more equal than others and some people have more rights than others. So, for example, in a divorce, the person who wants out of the marriage has freedom and rights to divorce, but, the person who wants to remain in the marriage and his kids have no freedom or rights at all.  In an abortion, the woman is free to kill her child (it is her right) while the man and the fetus have no freedom or rights and nothing to say. And so on and so forth.

As we have seen, it would be impossible for a society to be based on freedom, because the freedom of a person is the lack of freedom of another person (the freedom to divorce of a woman is the lack of freedom of a man to see how their kids grow). So in the Western civilization, like in any other countries, some freedoms are guaranteed while other freedoms are restricted.  In a Muslim country, the woman has no freedom to divorce but the man has the freedom to see his kids grow. The late blogger Zippy Catholic used to hammer this point home once and again (we miss you, Mark).

Muslim countries don’t have less freedoms than Western countries. They have different freedoms. However, Muslim countries are coherent because they don’t claim to be based on freedom while Western countries do.

Therefore, in fact, Western civilization has two official religions:

1. A relativistic religion in theory, for rhetorical uses. I will call this «liberalism». Its concepts (liberty, equality and rights) are presented as if they were absolute concepts and they are claimed to be the foundation of the society. Of course, this is only a rhetorical ploy (for speeches and, more importantly, to justify policies and laws). Relativism cannot be put into practice so liberalism is only a rhetorical ploy. Liberalism is a very simple ideology (it only consists of some few words: liberty, equality, progress, rights, etc.) and has not substantially changed for the last 200 years.

2. There is a real official religion, which is codified in the laws and it is the base of public discourse and policies. I will call it «leftism». This is an absolute religion with absolute goods and evils. For example, absolute evils are racism, sexism, homophobia, white nationalism. Absolute goods are the legalization of divorce and abortion, secularization, uncontrolled immigration, etc. These are absolute concepts and must be enforced as absolute by the law, the government and society in general. Leftism is constantly changing and incorporating new absolute goods and evils (transphobia is the latest evil so far, but it won’t be the last).

Go to a workplace and say that you don’t think the new LGBTI program is a good idea, because everybody should have their opinion and freedom of thought, and you will see how long liberalism (relativism) goes (I did this and I was fired). You will see what the ideology being enforced in society is leftism, not liberalism.

Liberalism is only a rhetorical ploy to justify leftism.  It took me a lot to see this distinction and this article by Bonald was useful so I decided to use his terminology.

That article explains how both religions are used to justify leftism, for example, in a debate of  gay marriage. You attack the ideas of ideologies other than leftism by using liberalism («Christian marriage is a cultural construct that does not allow freedom and equality to gay couples. Live and let live») and you defend your own ideas by using leftism («You should bake the cake for a gay wedding, you bigot, you homophobe»). There is no freedom or live and let live for this last case.

In short, your ideas are relative (liberalism), my ideas are absolute (leftism). It is «relativism for thee but not for me». This phenomenon of «relativism for thee but not for me» will be constantly seen in the history of relativism in Western civilization.

In short, Western civilization is based on what I call «a fake relativism». Relativism (liberalism) is used in a rhetorical way as if it was the foundation of the society but the society is based on leftism, on an absolutist religion (like any other society is because it is impossible to do it another way).

How other societies work with ultimate justification

If Western society is really based on an absolutist ideology like other societies, why is so harmful that it uses relativism in a rhetorical function?

The problem is that relativism is used as an ultimate justification of changes in the culture and in the law. And relativism can justify anything, no matter how insane it is.

If we start asking: «Why is A true/false?», this will have an answer along the lines of «A is true/false because it is derived from B, which is true/false». Then we can repeat the question with B: «Why is B true/false». This will produce a C being true/false. We cannot go on infinitely with this chain of justification. This chain stops with Z being true/false, full stop. Z is an ultimate justification and we can call it «a reality dogma».

Morality works the same way. If we start asking: «Why is A good/evil?», this will have an answer along the lines of «A is good/evil because it produces B, which is good/evil». Then we can repeat the question with B: «Why is B good/evil». This will produce a C being good/evil. We cannot go on infinitely with this chain of justification. This chain stops with Z being good/evil, full stop. Z is an ultimate justification and we can call it «a morality dogma».

All civilizations have dogmas, which are the foundation of the civilization. In ancient societies, dogmas were collected in holy traditions or holy texts such as the Bible, the Qur’an or the Talmud, which were used as the ultimate justification in these other societies. Each chain of justification ended with «the Bible/Qur’an/Talmud says it so».

However, these holy texts are extensions of obvious reality («men are women are different») and of the natural law («don’t steal»), that is, the universal moral law that all sane societies follow, because it is biologically wired in humans and it is the only way to organize a society.  The natural law has dogmas like «don’t lie, don’t steal, don’t murder, respect your neighbor’s wife, etc.».

All traditional holy texts include the dogmas of obvious reality («men are women are different») and the natural law («don’t steal») with some exceptions). They also include some other dogmas in addition («the Trinity», «the obligation to pray»). So the traditional holy texts can be seen as extensions of obvious reality and the natural law. See the appendix of The Abolition of Men by C.S.Lewis to see how all civilizations agree on the dogmas of the natural law (called «the Tao» by C.S.Lewis).

(The mechanism that makes all the holy texts to agree on obvious reality and the natural law is that societies that are not based on the natural law don’t survive long term , because the natural law is the minimum set of rules needed for a society to function, so the holy traditions of these societies die with them. This will be explored in another text)

Having the dogmas of a society derived from holy texts has as a benefit that its culture is not completely free. The culture is constantly changing but it does not get very far away from the dogmas of the holy texts, so it does not get very far away from the dogmas of the natural law. I imagine these cultures as a dog tied to a stick with a chain. The stick is the natural law. The dog (the culture) can move somewhat but he is not completely free, he must be somewhat close to the stick, even if the chain is long.

This seems outrageous to modern Western people, raised in a diet of fake rationalism. How can you limit your freedom of thought? You should be able to question anything! Follow your reason when it leads you!.

In fact, human reason (aided by convincing fallacies and social pressure) can justify absolutely anything, The modern West is a society that prides itself in its rationalism and it has rationally justified that a man is a woman (see «the social construction of gender» and other sophistries).

The dogmas of the holy texts mean that ancient cultures are protected from insanity. They cannot say that there are 26 genders because «God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. (Genesis 1:27). Or, if you are a Muslim, «O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women.» (Qur’an 4:1)

How the modern West works with ultimate justification

As we have said, the modern West has leftism as his real religion, but liberalism is his ultimate justification. Unlike ancient societies, whose dogmas were written in long texts, the dogmas of the modern West are surprisingly short: they are limited to a series of relativistic liberal concepts: freedom, equality, rights, and progress (with an additional implicit concept: tabula rasa).  In the modern West, these concepts of liberalism play the same role than the Bible, the Qur’an or the Talmud in other societies, which are used as the ultimate justification in these societies.

Every ultimate justification of the leftist religion in Western society is done starting from liberalism (which is the rhetorical religion) and not from leftism (which is the real religion). So why is homophobia evil? Because it goes against the freedom, equality and rights of homosexual people. Why is secularization good? Because it goes in favor of the freedom and equality of people of non-Christian religions, and so on and so forth.

So why is having liberalism as justification so bad? And how it is possible than an absolutist ideology (leftism) is justified starting from a relativistic ideology (liberalism), when this is logically impossible?

It is bad because the dogmas of Western civilization (freedom, equality, rights) are completely relativistic. When applied to the collective, they are fake dogmas that don’t mean anything. They are words to conceal the fact that the Western civilization has no dogmas at all. This means that this civilization is a free dog, with no chain. The civilization can move in any direction and there is no limit to the insanity it can accept.

Any direction the Western civilization moves can be justified as a new right, freedom or equality. Do we want to legalize divorce? We can say we are protecting the rights and freedoms of people unhappy in their marriage. Do we want to forbid divorce? We can say we are protecting the rights and freedoms of kids to have a stable family.

Do we want to enforce the identification of trannies as women? We can say we are protecting the rights of people trapped in the wrong body or are wanting the equality of these «women» with other women. Do we want to forbid identification of trannies as a women? We want to protect the rights of women to have private spaces (like restrooms) or the equality of women to have the same reward as men with the same effort in sports.

The sacred relativistic concepts (freedom, equality, rights) of our civilization are able to justify ANYTHING, no matter what. They are no concepts when applied to collective but a series of empty words than don’t mean anything. They can justify anything and its opposite.

More specifically, there is no insanity big enough that cannot be justified by using relativistic concepts. And this is why our society has reached these levels of insanity: liberalism (relativism) as an ultimate justification allows it, while other societies are restricted by their holy texts, their absolute religions based on the natural law.

Liberalism for me but not for thee

But this produces another question. If liberalism can justify anything, why is it only used to justify leftism? Why isn’t liberalism used to justify the freedom of everybody to use the pronouns he wants to interact to other people? Or the rights of kids to have a stable family?

That is to say, the fact that the relativistic liberalism allows insanity does not mean that it forces insanity. If liberalism concepts mean nothing, if liberal concepts give freedom to the society (to the dog) to go in any direction (because they are relativistic), we would expect for the Western society to go in random directions, but the direction is always the same: towards insanity and towards the opposite direction of obvious reality and the natural law.

In fact, if we speak accurately, liberalism is not properly an ultimate justification of leftism. It is an ultimate rationalization.

Leftism has its own dynamics and evolves in an completely independent way from liberalism. It has mechanisms in place that make leftism evolve in one direction. As Mencius Moldbug said “Cthulhu may swim slowly. But he only swims left. Isn’t that interesting?”

Once leftism has produced a cultural change because its own internal dynamics, liberalism is called to justify it, to rationalize it. A liberal justification is created which justifies the novelty as derived from the freedom/equality/right of someone (let’s say the freedom and right to be called by your favorite pronouns). The fact that the freedom/equality/rights of other people is restricted is completely omitted (the freedom/right of everybody to free expression). So leftism is rationalized starting from liberalism using a fallacy of omission («stack the deck» fallacy). This is the only way to derive an absolute ideology (leftism) from a relativistic ideology (liberalism).

So, in other words, it is liberalism for me but not for thee. Relativism is never applied in a complete manner. It is applied in a partial way that justifies leftism and, when it contradicts leftism, it is not applied. Liberalism justifies leftist rights but other rights are never discussed. We will constantly see this in the history of the modern West.

But, what are the mechanisms that make leftism always evolve in the same direction? This will be seen in the last post of this text.

This is the end of this text. But it is only a summary. There is a lot more to explain such as the historical birth of relativism, the factors than increase its influence and lots of loose ends included in this text.

Why did the West go to hell (VIc): The wrong concept of rights

As the previous installment explained, the language of rights and the language of responsibilities are logically equivalent. Rights are moral claims expressed with an active voice and obligations are moral claims expressed with a passive voice.

In fact, a right is someone else’s obligation and an obligation is someone else’s right. But this does not imply that both languages are equally good, because there is more in language that logical representation. A language expression can be logically adequate while being:

a) Not clear. The expression does not make easy to understand its meaning.

b) Not useful: The expression does not produce useful emotions and actions in humans.

The last installment explained why the language of rights is not clear: it is a convoluted, obscure and manipulative way to speak about obligations.

This final installment will explain why the language of rights is not useful: it produces all kinds of social and personal dysfunctions.

RIGHT MUDDLES RESPONSIBILITY

The passive voice muddles responsibility 

As we saw in the first installment of this series of rights, the language of rights is a form of the passive voice of the moral claims (the passive voice of the OUGHT part). Like any passive voice, the language of rights makes easy to muddle responsibility.

If we start with a passive voice of the IS variety (the one that explains how things are, not how they should be), we can see this in the following statement of Cardinal Edward Egan regarding the handling of sex abuse allegations against priests:

«It is clear that today we have a much better understanding of this problem. If, in hindsight, we also discover that mistakes may have been made as regards prompt removal of priests and assistance to victims, I am deeply sorry,»

For the sake of brevity, I have removed from this text the explanation of all the dishonest linguistic and semantic tricks that muddle responsibility in this despicable statement.

I will only focus in «mistakes may have been made». Who committed these mistakes? We don’t know. The passive voice allows to express an action while omitting  a vital piece of information: who did the action described. It is a dishonest grammar structure that hides responsibility without the listener noticing that the responsibility has been omitted.

In fact, as we saw in a previous installment, passive voice follows the structure PATIENT be ACTION [by AGENT], where «by AGENT» can be and is often omitted. Cardinal Egan could have said: «Mistakes we made by us» but he preferred to omit this information. This kind of manipulation is impossible with an active voice: «We made mistakes», «[Whoever] made mistakes». It is impossible to hide responsibility.

In short, the passive voice allows people to hide the agent, the responsible of the action, as if these crimes were accidents of nature, which only just «happen». As Theodore Dalrymple observed in English prisons:

I am fascinated by prisoners’ use of the passive mood and other modes of speech that are supposed to indicate their helplessness. They describe themselves as the marionettes of happenstance.

In the previous statement by Cardinal Egan, it seems that the bishops enabling sexual abuses were only unlucky. They happened to work in a place where some mistakes simply «happened». This is the dishonesty of the passive voice.

The language of rights produces anarchotyranny

As we saw in a previous installment, the language of rights is only a passive form of the OUGHT statement: a passive voice to express moral claims. So it shares the dishonest muddling of responsibility with other forms of the passive voice.

The language of rights has the following structure: PATIENT has a right of ACTION [by AGENT] where «by AGENT» can be and is often omitted.

Let’s see an example with the language of obligations (modal active voice):

«You should not litter»

This is as clear as water. Whose responsibility is it? Yours. The one reading the sentence is the one who should not behave like a pig when walking on the street.

Let’s put it in the language of rights (modal passive voice):

«You have the right to a clean public space»

Whose responsibility is it to keep the public space clean? It is not clear at all. It is not clear that you have to refrain to behave like a pig in the public space. Maybe  the local or national administration is the one responsible to keep the public space tidy and, as Theodore Dalrymple observes:

Thus, to take a trifling instance, it is the duty of the city council to keep the streets clean; therefore my own conduct in this regard is morally irrelevant—which no doubt explains why so many young Britons now leave a trail of litter behind them wherever they go. If the streets are filthy, it is the council’s fault. Indeed, if anything is wrong—for example, my unhealthy diet—it is someone else’s fault, and the job of the public power to correct. 

That is, the language of rights produces anarchotyranny. It produces:

  • Inmoral behavior (anarchy): everybody thinks that other people is the responsible to make the right (clean public space) come true so he feels free to behave as he wants. I can leave a trail of litter behind while protesting bitterly that «I have a right to a clean space».
  • Overreliance on the State (tyranny): Since nobody is responsible, it is the role of the State to step up and clean the streets full of garbage. Even if it does not do it (because of unwillingness, incompetence or lack of means), everybody recognizes that it is the State the one who should guarantee this right. Even if the State does not clean the streets, it should be the one that is responsible to keep the streets clean, whether by outsourcing the work or creating new laws. Individual behavior is not important.

That is, the historical movement from the language of obligations to the language of rights in Western civilizations produces a change from individual moral behavior to the expansion of the State.

People behave more and more in a anti-social way (this is often called «freedom») while the State meddles in all aspects of individual life. Since the State is not able to control each individual, this produces both more anti-social behavior and more control of the State. This is part of the movement from a society of guilt and shame to a society of fear, which is ongoing in the Western civilization and will be discussed somewhere else.

The language of rights is a tool for parasitism

As we have seen, the language of rights seems like a great deal in our societies with infantilized populations. I get to behave as I want and Daddy-State will pick up the bad consequences of my actions. What’s not to like?

In fact, besides the fact that the State cannot cover the bad behavior of each individual (see above), there is the fact that the State is composed by people.  The ones cleaning the streets are the street sweepers, which are paid by the State, that is, by taxes.

So the role of the language of rights is to shift responsibility from the people behaving badly to everyone. Now, if I want to behave like a pig in the public space, everybody has to pay for this through taxes. I may not pay for this (for example, because I am poor or a minor) but somebody is paying for my bad behavior. Somebody who does not behave like a pig is paying for me behaving like a pig. And the State is growing as the middleman for these taxes and responsible for this cleaning.

That is, the language of rights is a tool for parasitism. The parasites manage to shift the costs of their behavior to something else. This is one of the causes why both anti-social behavior and the size of the State are constantly growing in Western civilization. Taxes and State control increase and increase while people find new ways of being a parasite, which are expressed as a new right that is being created.

For example, in my country, even bad students have a right to higher education. This means that everyone (including working class people who does not go to the University) has to pay the costs of bad students who don’t want to study and want to party all the time. As I have said, the right is only a manipulation tool to justify parasitism. The right of bad students to have a fun college life is the obligation of everybody else to pay their irresponsible behavior.

This parasitism is often paid by the entire population through taxes  but this is not always the case. Sometimes specific individuals bear the cost instead of the general population. The squat («okupa») movement in my country justifies its actions saying that the Spanish Constitution includes a right to housing so they are entitled to live in an empty house or apartment that belongs to somebody else, because they have this right. In this case, the costs are borne by the owner of the house. The right of a woman to have alimony in America is the obligation of his ex-husband to pay. In this case, the costs are borne by the ex-husband.

But, in general, the language of rights is mostly used with «rights» of some specific people, where the obligations (or costs) are omitted but they are diffused throughout the entire population. The right of a trans to be considered a woman and be called «the right pronouns» is an obligation for everybody else to lie to him and to engage in ridiculous linguistic expressions.

In fact, most new rights benefit specific interest groups while creating new obligations to the population in general. This is what makes palatable new rights to the general population. It is not only that the responsibility is muddled but that they are diffused throughout the population so they are divided by a big number of people and seem a small cost. Every new right is a small monetary or non-monetary cost that  «taxes»  the population so it seems a minor hassle. So this way the temperature of the water where the frog swims increases little by little.

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RIGHT HIDE RESPONSIBILITY COMPLETELY

Rights as a power grab

But, in reality, it is worse than that. In examples like «I have a right to clean public space», it is obvious that someone has a responsibility to keep the streets clean although it is not clear whose responsibility it is.

But most statements of rights do not muddle responsibility but they hide responsibility completely.  In fact, the language of rights makes easy to forget that there is somebody responsible to make this right true, that there is some obligation. It seems that there are only advantages.

This is why everybody is talking about his rights. It tries to impose obligations on the rest of society while disguising the fact that these obligations are being imposed. It is a manipulative action by normal people and politicians.

With normal people, it  is difficult to argue with a person who says «This is my right». The language implies that there is no cost to respect this right. So people claim rights as a rhetorical way to impose obligations to other people, without other people noticing that obligations are being imposed. The language of rights is a tool of manipulation to grab power for myself while imposing the costs to someone else.

This is why the left-wing parties and politicians in general are always wanting to increase rights («we need to advance in rights», «we need to create new rights»)  because it seems something that only has a positive side and no downsides. They create new rights to impose obligations that benefit the State or the interest groups that support the politicians while it seems that no obligation is imposed and it is a change that only has a positive side: it is «progress». In short, it is the perfect racket: it is a power grab that seems to give you power instead of taking power from you.

The scope creep of rights

With special groups and politicians having this interest in using «rights» as a rhetorical tool to get advantages for themselves, it is not strange that new rights are constantly being discovered and enforced. In Western civilization, the set of rights have scope creep: human rights, women’s rights, gay rights, trans rights, migrant rights, animal rights, etc. You start by saying «I have right to live» and you end up by saying «I have a right to be called with xir as my pronoun». Rights are constantly increasing, because they are presented as a positive thing with no cost.

This way, a vast part of the Western population is more and more slave since it has to obey to all the obligations that these rights impose. But, since these obligations are hidden under the concept of rights, Western population applauds any new right and, hence, it applauds its own enslavement.

Rights as a geopolitical tool

In addition, this is used as a power tool in geopolitics. When the American Empire wants to invade a country, it can justify the invasion as «we are doing to enforce rights». Since the obligations implied by these rights are hidden, this sounds like «we are doing it because we want to do good». So each invasion is sold as a moral crusade.

In the invasion of Afghanistan, the alibi was «we are fighting for women’s rights» (no matter that the vast majority of women in Afghanistan supported sharia). This made blogger Jim quip: «We went to war in Afghanistan to make the local schoolgirls put a condom on a banana».

Recently, the Department of State declared that it has as a duty to impose LGBTI rights around the world. This provides the perfect alibi for invasion, since LGBTI rights is a modern Western invention that has not been exported to many countries in the world. In fact, all countries that are not Western, have no LGBTI rights or the LGBTI rights do not measure to the standard of LGBTI rights in the Western world.

Since Western civilization is constantly creating new rights, it is easy to find a new right that is not enforced in some country that USA wants to invade so there is always an alibi for invasion. We can invade for money, for power or other geopolitical goals, but we always says we invade for rights. We are not invaders but liberators.

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RIGHTS ARE RELATIVISTIC.

A culture based on rights?

We have seen that my right is someone else’s obligation. But there is something more. Rights are incompatible with other rights, a topic that was explored when talking about freedoms. In fact, since obligations is the lack of freedom, what is explained here is only the same problem than the one explained when talking about freedoms, only expressed in the language of rights.

When Muslim terrorists attack Western countries, there is a chorus of politicians that say: «they attack us because they hate our freedoms, they hate our rights». The rationale is that Western societies have more rights and freedoms that Muslim societies have, so Muslim terrorist, somehow, hate us for this. (The fact that we are meddling and killing people in the Middle East since forever has nothing to do, of course).

But is there a society that can have more rights than another one? In fact, this is impossible.

The infamous Masterpiece Cakeshop case before the Supreme Court illustrates this case. Masterpiece Cakeshop, a bakery in Lakewood (Colorado), refused to design a custom «wedding» cake for a gay couple based on the owner’s Christian religious beliefs. The Colorado Civil Rights Commission found that the bakery had discriminated against the couple and the Supreme Court reverted this decision.

Here we have two supposed «rights»: the right of the gay couple not to be discriminated against and the right of the baker not to do something against his religious beliefs. Both rights are in conflict. Allowing the gay couple’s right is forbidding the baker’s right and vice verse. Whose right is going to prevail? The Colorado Civil Rights Commission thinks that it is the former that should prevail but the Supreme Court thinks that it is the latter. In fact, as we have seen, this depends on the values of the society.

So you can’t have a society that has more rights than another one, since somebody’s right is somebody’s lack of right (or to be honest, somebody’s obligation is the lack of obligation of somebody else). The right of the gay couple is the lack of the right of the Christian baker. Every time the law recognizes a right is denying another right.

So Western societies have the right of women to divorce their husbands while Muslim societies have the right of men to have their families intact and see their children grow. Muslim societies don’t have fewer rights than Western societies. They have other rights (or, being honest, other obligation).

The same way there is not some thing such as «advancing in rights». Every time you advance in a right, you «regress» in another right.

Rights as a relativistic concept used in an absolutist manner

What we ultimately have is that «rights» (like «freedom» or «equality») is a relativistic concept: the right of somebody is the lack of right of somebody else.

But rights are presented in the public discourse like an absolutist concept: as if there were rights out there that are independent from societies and individuals and that they have to be accepted because it is morally right. So public authorities speak about «advancing in rights», «expanding human rights to the entire world» and so on and so forth.

As we have seen, this is one of the features of the Western culture: use relativistic concepts in an absolutist manner. This has obvious advantages for manipulation:

  • Since rights are relativistic, anything that powers want to enforce on the population can be expressed as a right. See above for more details.
  • Since rights are treated as an absolutist concept, they are presented as something indisputable, something that people have to accept and comply with.

So rights (like freedom and equality) are the ultimate weapon: you can legally and morally force everybody to abide with anything you want.

Rights as a tool of political manipulation

Since rights are obligations disguised as freedoms, since they seem all advantages and no downsides, Western authorities can use them as a tool of political manipulation. The method is as follows.

1. Western authorities (politicians, international organism, the elite behind) want to impose some new political measure. Let’s say «making divorce legal», which happened in my country in 1981.

2. This political measure will benefit somebody and will harm somebody. For example, it will benefit the person who wants to divorce and it will harm the person who wants to keep the marriage intact.

3. The authorities focus only on the people that benefit from the new measure and invent a new «right», which didn’t exist five minutes before but it is created from thin air. There is a right for unhappy people in marriage to «rebuilt their life». This people have a right to divorce, because they are entitled to be happy. The» right» to be happy of the abandoned spouse is completely omitted.

4. The benefits of the new political measure are publicized in media, movies, songs until the population see the «new right» as something that is so obvious and so fair that denying it puts you in the same category as Hitler.

5. The new «right» is recognized in a law and now there is an obligation for some spouses and kids to see their families broken. We are advancing in rights! Yippee!

6. Lather, rinse, repeat.

This method has been used with all kinds of new «rights». The last example is the right of «gender identity», the right of «gender-affirming medical care» (that is, the obligation of parents to see his deluded kid to be castrated).

An example: using rights to introduce pedophilia

Pedophilia is a right nut to crack, for obvious reasons. Decades of trying to make it legal have produced modest advances. The problem is inventing a right out of pedophilia to apply the method described above is not obvious. For decades, the course of action was to try to invent a right for pedophiles to have a good sexual life. This was so outrageous that it had to be introduced piecemeal. So we got all these «ethical pedophiles» that claimed not to touch children (some of them were caught touching children afterwards) but they wanted to be understood because they were born this way.  So we had things like this TEDx talk claiming that pedophilia should be accepted as an unchangeable sexual orientation https://www.metroweekly.com/2018/07/tedx-speaker-argues-that-pedophilia-should-be-accepted-as-an-unchangeable-sexual-orientation/

Obviously, this went nowhere so a more effective strategy had to be devised.  Now the course of action is to invent a right of sexual expression for children. If children want to have sex with an adult, who are you to limit the right of the kid, you monster? This will be the new «right» that is going to be imposed to us.

On September 21, 2022, Irene Montero, the Spanish minister of equality declared in the Spanish House of Representatives:

“All children in this country have the right to know their own body, to know that no adult can touch their body if they don’t want to, and that this is a form of violence. They have the right to know that they can love or have sexual relations with whoever they want, based, yes, on consent. And those are rights that are recognized, and that you do not like.»

See the language of rights used to justify that kids can have sexual relationship with adults, even if it is in an indirect way. The minister refused to rectify these words when asked to.

The Spanish Minister for Equality has reiterated that «children have the right to know that they can love whoever they want and have sex with whoever they want, that they have the right to abortion.» She stated that sex education is «a pillar of access to sexual and reproductive rights,» which in the minister’s opinion is «a matter of human rights, not an ideological option.»

This is the end game of the concept of rights in Western thought: to justify the most outrageous abuses that cry out to heaven based on creating «new rights». Western people have been trained to agree when they hear words like «rights», «freedom» or «equality», like Pavlov’s dogs. Their brains turn to mush and they justify the most criminal abuses. They repeat «freedom», «equality», «rights» while they drool like idiots.

Conclusion

This started as one page of notes I had based on the reflections on rights I have had for years and wanted to flesh out. Then, when I tried to write it, it blew out of proportion. If you have reached the end of this writing, thank you for your patience.

I only wanted to show that the concept of rights is one of the most evil concepts that has produced Western thought and that is used to enslave us and take us to hell. There is no way out of our current predicament without rejecting the language of rights and go back to the language of obligations, which was used by the wisdom of all cultures except the modern West.

 

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Muddles responsibility: produces anarcotyranny

HIdes cost: Scope creep.

Right as barrotes.

Since it hides costs, it is used as a power grab by people and politicians

Relativistic. Parasitism – Privatizes benefits

The right to pedophilia: use as a weapon.

It is relativistic used as an absolutist rhetoric

 


 

sibility

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The right to pedophilia. These are the new rights. Only five years ago and it seems Moses. So you are a meanie denying a right.

In Western society, the concept of rights has scope creep. The rights of children, women, LGBTI, migrants… This is the way the power and the groups of pressure favored by the power imposes obligations to the majority of the population without noticing that an obligation has been imposed.

Fight people with each other.

As a result, the rights is a tool of parasitism. The right to education of bad students. Western civilization is invaded by a set of parasites that are incompatible with each other.

Without the tommyrot.

 

But what is a right, anyway. An obligation is easy to grasp:

Not a symmetry. It is a convoluted and manipulative way to talk about obligations.

Right after right, we are being put in chains.

 

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Language of obligations is straightforward. Has the following structure:  AGENT OBLIGATION BENEFICIARY. The object is often implicit but it is obvious to find out.

Language of obligations is SUBJECT has the right of RIGHT [by the AGENT] where «by the AGENT» is often dropped and not obvious to find out.

Who is the responsible to produce this right or obligation? Shall not litter. Muddles responsibility.

In fact, the language of rights makes easy to forget that there is somebody responsible, that there is some obligation. It seems that there are only disavantages.

This is why the left-wing parties and politicians in general speak of rights in the campaigns, because it seems something positive while an obligation is imposed on layers of the populations.

This is the fact why everybody is talking about his rights. It tries to impose obligations on the rest of society while disguising the fact that these obligations are being imposed. It is a manipulative action by normal people and politicians.

The right to pedophilia. These are the new rights. Only five years ago and it seems Moses. So you are a meanie denying a right.

In Western society, the concept of rights has scope creep. The rights of children, women, LGBTI, migrants… This is the way the power and the groups of pressure favored by the power imposes obligations to the majority of the population without noticing that an obligation has been imposed.

Fight people with each other.

As a result, the rights is a tool of parasitism. The right to education of bad students. Western civilization is invaded by a set of parasites that are incompatible with each other.

Without the tommyrot.

 

But what is a right, anyway. An obligation is easy to grasp:

Not a symmetry. It is a convoluted and manipulative way to talk about obligations.

Right after right, we are being put in chains.

 


The language of rights, as any other

  • «We did not have a good understanding back then» (as if priests abusing minors is rocket science),
  • «in hindsight» (as if this has not been a sin for 2000 years),
  • «if mistakes were made» and «mistakes may be made» (he does not admit that something wrong has happened, it is only a possibility that it may have happened),
  • «I am deeply sorry» (instead of admitting responsibility or apologizing, he only «feels sorry»).

In addition, labelling the enabling of sex crimes and despicable sins as «mistakes» is completely dishonest.  This can almost be read as if this was an accounting error when we are talking about priests abusing minors and bishops enabling this behavior.

But look at the passive voice: «mistakes may have been made». Remove the dishonest «may» and we get to «mistakes were made». Who has made these mistakes? It is never said. You cannot retrieve this information from the words uttered. There is not a «by» clause, such as «mistakes were made by all of us» or an honest active voice «We made mistakes».

 

It has often been  noticed that the passive voice is a manipulation device to hide responsibility, by hiding the agent of the action. The book «Mistakes were made (by not by me)» explains this and provides the following statement of Cardinal Edward Egan regarding the handling of sex abuse allegations against priests:

«It is clear that today we have a much better understanding of this problem. If, in hindsight, we also discover that mistakes may have been made as regards prompt removal of priests and assistance to victims, I am deeply sorry,»

The good Cardinal had no responsibility and nothing to feel guilty about. He happened to be present in an unenlightened era where sexual abuse was not well understood and working in a place where «mistakes were made». He «feels sorry» about the victims, the same way you can feel sorry about the victims of World War II without having responsibility in these deaths.

In short, passive voice can be used as a dishonest way to shirk responsibility because the responsible of the evil deeds can be easily omitted.

 

The language of rights also muddles responsibility

As we have seen, the language of rights is only a modal version of the passive voice and shares its manipulative character. The language of rights, like any other passive voice, makes easy to omit the AGENT of the action, that is, the person responsible for the moral claim.

Why did the West go to hell (VIb): The wrong concept of rights

In the previous installment, we saw that rights and obligations are two sides of the same coin. A moral claim can be expressed in the language of rights (the beneficiary has a right to something: «You have the right to life») or in the language of obligations (the agent has an obligation towards other people: «Thou shalt not kill»). This is the same moral claim expressed in two different ways. Ancient cultures preferred the latter while the modern West prefers the former.

But, as the previous installment claimed, the language we use is important. It shapes our thoughts, our feelings, our worldview. It makes easy to think some ideas and makes difficult to think some other ideas.

So it is the time to analyze the linguistic implications of the language of rights and the language of difficulties.

Is the concept of rights adequate?

For years, I saw rights and obligations as a two ways of expressing a moral claim: two language expressions for the same moral fact. I thought that, since they were logically equivalent, using one or another was a matter of cultural and personal preference. Ancient cultures favored the language of obligations while modern Western culture preferred the language of rights.

So I was surprised when I read the beginning of Simone Weil’s book: «The notion of obligations comes before that of rights, which is subordinate and relative to the former.»

I wondered: «Is she right?» Are obligations preferable to rights?

It turns out that there is more in language that logical representation. A language expression can be logically adequate while being:

a) Not clear. The expression does not make easy to understand its meaning.

b) Not useful: The expression does not produce useful emotions and actions in humans.

Going to the dictionary

Focusing on the clarity, is it the notion of rights clear enough? This is a weird question for Westerners. We take «right» as something self-evident, so clear that it is difficult to explain or give a definition. As I said, it is similar to words like «red» or expressions like «2+2=4», which are clear and obvious, although difficult to explain.

Some years ago, when I started thinking this topic, I thought that a first approximation is to consider rights as a version of freedoms. I have the right to private property because I am free to have private property. But there was something that eluded me. «Rights» had a sense of urgency and normativity that is not present in «freedoms». It is like rights were more important than freedoms, in some way. I am free to eat vanilla ice cream but I don’t have a right to eat vanilla ice cream (all the companies producing it may have broken).

So I decided to go to the dictionary. Merriam-Webster defines «right» as «the power or privilege to which one is justly entitled» and «entitled» as «having a right to certain benefits or privileges». If we remove the circular definition we have the right is «a just power or privilege». «Privilege» is defined as «a right or immunity granted as a peculiar benefit, advantage, or favor». So, removing the circular definition, we have that right is «a just power» but this does not capture the notion. I have a just power of treating my wife in a good way but this is not a «right». In addition, if you investigate «just» in the Merrian-Webster, it follows a set of circular definitions.

Let’s change of dictionary. The Oxford English Dictionary is not available and the Collins dictionary is circular in its definition of right. The Cambridge English dictionary says that a right is «the fact that a person or animal can expect to be treated in a fair, morally acceptable, or legal way, or to have the things that are necessary for life». But this is the definition of justice, which is much broader than the notion of right.

So I recurred to the authoritative dictionaries in my two native tongues:  in Spanish and Catalan. Both dictionaries spill the beans but the IEC Dictionary of the Catalan Language is clearer. According to it, a right is the:

Faculty to demand what is due to us, to do what the law does not defend, to have, demand, use, etc., what the law or the authority establishes in our favor or is allowed to us by whoever can.

Defining the concept of rights

And the IEC Dictionary of the Catalan Language show us the truth: a right is the faculty to demand what is due to us, that is, the obligations other people have to us. My current definition is:

A right is somebody else’s obligation [that benefits me].

It also could be said that «an obligation is somebody else’s right [that benefits him]», since both are logically equivalent. But there is a difference that breaks the symmetry. If you want to define a right in a non-circular form, it is impossible to do it without using the concept of obligation, although you can hide the concept of obligation under the rug with similar language («what is due to you, what other people are bound or tied to do for you», «what should be done to you»).

Since dictionaries did not help with that, I tried to define the concept of rights without recurring to obligations. Every attempt ended up throwing the concept of obligations under the rug. My best shot was:

A right is a freedom one should have.

And the trap is in the word «should». What happens if I don’t have one of my rights?  If my right to private property is not guaranteed, it should be guaranteed and every person should not use my property without my permission. That is, every person has the obligation of not using my property without permission. So we are ultimately talking about obligations.

You can’t define rights without the concept of obligations, but you can define obligations without the concept of rights. In fact defining obligations without recurring to rights is the natural thing to do and all the mentioned dictionaries do it this way.

Rights as a dishonest concept

So Simone Weil was right: the concept of obligations is primary and the concept of rights is only a convoluted and dishonest way to speak about obligations. She says:

A right is not effectual by itself, but only in relation to the obligation to which it corresponds, the effective exercise of a right springing not from the individual who possesses it, but from other men who consider themselves as being under a certain obligation towards him.

I would go further: rights (in the modern sense) do not exist, they are only a dishonest way to speak about obligations. It is not strange that almost all civilizations have defined the moral landscape using the language of obligations: it is the clear, honest and right way to do it.

A comparison may be adequate. There have always been a tiny minority of people with gender disphoria: men who considered themselves women and vice versa. The right and honest language to refer to this phenomenon  is «gender disphoria» or something similar.

But we can label people with gender disphoria as «trans» and people without gender disphoria as «cis». This, without the rest of the transgender ideology, is not false. It is logically equivalent to using «gender disphoria».

But this is a dishonest way to express the phenomenon: it muddles things, it is a convoluted way to express the situation, which implies that this is an identity issue instead of a medical issue and implies that «cis» and «trans» are two equivalent modalities of being human. You end up with things like «cis-normativity» to refer to the normal and natural functioning of all societies in all ages.

The same way, «rights» is logically equivalent to «obligations» but it is a dishonest way to express the situations which allows all kinds of manipulations, which will be explored in the final installment of these series.

Ancient cultures had «duties» or «obligations» and anything that was not a duty was a freedom. So they had freedoms and obligations (lack of freedom). Day and night. White and black. Left side and right side.

Modern western culture has «freedoms» and «rights» (that is, obligations). So, even if the logical meaning is the same, the rhetorical content is completely different, because right seem like freedom so it seems that there are not obligations for the pampered modern man. Day and day. White and more white. Right side without left side. It is a brilliant maneuver of manipulation.

An example

One of this manipulations is that rights are presented as something that only gives freedom and the obligations they describe are quietly omitted.

So everybody is in favor of rights, because they see it as a form of gaining freedoms without downsides. They don’t see the obligations involved.

The elections in my country ended up in surprise. Although everyone was convinced that the right-wingt parties were going to win, the left-wing parties managed to retain the power.  After the elections the same message was repeated once and again by the president to many left-wing politicians.

Here is how Patxi López, an important left-wing politician put it: «We have to form a government that allows us to continue advancing in rights». Pedro Sánchez, the president said this:

The message from the polls has made it clear that those who propose […] going backwards are not the majority and that, therefore, Spain can continue […] advancing in social rights.

Who can oppose «advancing in social rights» if everything looks positive and with no downsides? Rights, as presented by modern Western, are magical: they have no downsides and can be created out of the blue, with no cost involved.  The fact that each right brings with it a set of obligations is ignored by everybody. After each new right, the modern Western man is more and more slave: bound to more obligations, but the language of rights conceals this in a brilliant maneuver of manipulation.

But we will explore that in the final installment about rights.

 

 

Why did the West go to hell (VIa): The wrong concept of rights

[Why did the West go to Hell attempts to be a logical and historical explanation of the genesis of today’s Absurdistan: a world where you are evil if you say that pigs cannot fly. This is the first installment to be written but, in the unlikely case that  the series is completed, it will be the first part of the sixth chapter. You can contact the author on virapala@merdeta.com]

Introducción

Today, while I am writing these lines (July 23, 2023), it is election day in my country. It is foreseen for the left-wing parties to lose the government. The electoral campaign of these parties has consisted in repeating mantras like: «We have advanced in rights so much during these years to go back», «We have created new rights for women, immigrants and LGBTI people. These rights are endangered by the new right-wing majority». The leader of the left-wing party «Sumar» asked the people to go vote to «get up tomorrow with more rights».

These mantras are based on two dogmas of liberalism (the new relativistic religion produced by the Enlightenment): progress and rights. In this series, we are going to analyze the concept of rights. This analysis will consist of three levels:

Logical level. First installment.

Clarity level. Second installment.

Pragmatic level. Third and fourth installment.

Rights as magical objects

As we have seen in the sentences above, it seems that rights are supposed to have magical qualities: they can be created ex nihilo (the same way God created the Universe), without limit and with no negative effects. All are advantages when it comes to rights. There are not downsides.

It is shocking how fishy the concept of rights is when you try to analyze it. For the Western man, «right» is a basic concept, so obvious and difficult to explain like the concept of «red».  Sentences like «This is my right» or «That country violates human rights» are easy to understand by everybody in the West, whether one agrees or disagrees with them. They don’t need any explanation or definition. But what is a right?

A first approximation could start from the IS-OUGHT distinction explained by David Hume. IS refers to the reality (how things are, whether a thing is true or false) while OUGHT refers to the morality (how things ought to be, whether a thing is good or evil).

As we have seen, in a religion (or moralistic worldview) there are two parts: the IS part and the OUGHT part. It is obvious that the concept of rights belongs to the OUGHT part. When the United Nations Declarations of Human Rights says «Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person», this is not a statement of fact about reality. It doesn’t mean that there are no people who are killed, enslaved or lack security. It means that the life, liberty and security of every person OUGHT TO be respected. That is, respecting these things is GOOD.

In fact, as we will see, the concept of rights is the main language to express morality in the modern West. Sometimes, other languages are used in informal or less important contexts but the most formal and important moral matters are expressed in terms of rights.

You can see this in daily news. When the Western politicians or experts want to condemn the government of a country, they don’t say that this government is evil, that it is wicked, that it does not fulfill its obligations, that mistreats its citizens, that it is inmoral…they say that this government violates human rights. And every military campaign is justified by claiming that it is necessary to guarantee the human rights of foreign people in countries that most Westerners cannot locate in a map. This is the modern way to say that the campaign is a moral crusade, which is fighting for the good, while his opponents are evil.

Morality in other cultures

However, when we study history, it is shocking to see that the concept of rights, which structures all morality in Western civilization, is relatively parochial. It has arisen only in one culture (the West) and only for the last centuries. Of course, the modern West has exported this concept to other cultures, but this is a only product of Westernization. «Rights» remains an indigenous concept of the West and  its origin and development are part of the history of  Western philosophy. I will not explain here the history of the concept of rights, because it will be long and it is not difficult to find on the Internet. In fact, when I use «right», I refer to its current understanding, although philosophers of the past understood the concept differently.

The books of history describe entire civilizations that lasted centuries or millennia without having the concept of rights. How did they regulate morality, then? They must have had another concepts.

It may be useful to include some examples to see if we can identify a pattern. These examples are taken from the Bible and the appendix of «The Abolition of Man» by C.S.Lewis:

  • «Thou shalt not kill» (Exodus 20:13)
  • «Utter not a word by which anyone could be wounded.» (Hindu. Janet, p. 7)
  • «Never do to others what you would not like them to do to you.’ (Ancient Chinese. Analects of Confucius, trans. A. Waley, xv. 23; cf. xii. 2)
  • ‘The first point of justice is that none should do any mischief to another unless he has first been attacked by the other’s wrongdoing»  (Roman. Cicero, De Off. i. vii)
  • Children, obey your parents  […]. “Honor your father and mother” […] Fathers, do  not provoke your children to anger (Ephesians 6:1-4)

If we analyze the first example, we will see that its logical content is equivalent to the modern expression «Every person has a right to life». If a man has a right to life, it means that nobody should kill him (or «shalt not kill him», to use the King James Version language so cherished by English-speaking people).

That is to say, «Thou shalt not kill» is the same piece of morality as «Every person has a right to life» but expressed in a different manner, without the concept of rights. But the emphasis has radically changed. The ancient version emphasizes the agent of the action (the person who could kill) while the modern version emphasizes the receiver of the action (the person who could be killed). To say it in a linguistic manner, the focus has moved from the SUBJECT to the OBJECT.

You can see that the other examples also focus on the agent. Whatever the linguistic expression of the ancient examples, it is clear that all of them could be expressed using SHOULD or OUGHT TO.

  • You should not kill
  • You should not wound with your tongue.
  • You should never do to others what you would not like them to do to you
  • You should not do any mischief to another unless he has first been attacked by the other’s wrongdoing
  • You should obey and honor your parents. You should not provoke your children to anger.

And this is the way the ancient and non-Western civilizations expressed morality. Not as RIGHTS, but as OBLIGATIONS (also known as «duties»). Not saying that a somebody (a beneficiary)  but that somebody (an agent) has an obligation.

The language of rights and the language of obligations

The same way that an object cannot have a front without a back, it is impossible to have rights without obligations. My right to life is everyone else’s obligation not to kill me. My right to private property is the obligation for everybody not to use my property without my permission. My right to «gender identity» is the obligation of everybody else to lie to me.

In short, rights and obligations are two sides of the same coin. This coin can be called «moral claim» and you can look at it from the front and you will see rights, while if you look at it from behind you will see obligations. But it is the same coin. «Thou shalt not kill» and «You have a right to life» is the same moral claim, expressed with different languages.

In general, there are two languages to express morality: the language of rights and the language of obligations. The former is used by the modern West and the latter by everybody else. They are logically equivalents, although the translation between them is sometimes difficult. Let’s try the translation of the ancient examples of obligations included above into the language of rights:

  • Every person has a right to life.
  • Every person has the right not to be wounded by the tongue of another person (this seems eerily modern, like the justification of «safe spaces»).
  • Every person has the right of not being done actions that others would not want for themselves.
  • Every person has the right not to be object of mischief if he is not attacking another person.
  • Every person has a right to be honored and obeyed by his children. Every person has a right not to be provoked to anger by his parents.

The same way, you can translate rights to the language of obligations. The sentence «Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person» could be translated into «You should not kill, enslave or threaten the security of any other person». Put a «Thou» and a «shalt» in it and it seems a Biblical commandment.

For years, it seemed obvious to me that rights and obligations are the same thing, expressed in a different language. But I was surprised that this was not a common fact acknowledged by everybody.  I tried to find some thinker that had written about this topic but Google searches were in vain.

Then, some days ago, when I was writing this text, I decided to give ChatGPT a go and it didn’t disappoint me. It seems that Simone Weil (a Jewish philosopher close to Christianity who I didn’t know at all) had written about this topic. Her  book «The need for roots» (1943) starts with:

It makes nonsense to say that men have, on the one hand, rights, and on the other hand, obligations. Such words only express differences in point of view. The actual relationship between the two is as between object and subject. 

(Of course, quoting famous people is only a form of puppetry: you include the few quotes that agree with your own thought and disregard the rest, which are the vast majority of quotes. So you give the impression of having the best minds in the history of mankind backing your opinion while each one of them only agrees with a tiny point of your argument. But you can do it because they are dead so they can’t protest that you are stealing their words for your own ends.)

The linguistics of rights and obligation

In English (as in many languages), there are two ways of expressing a sentence: the active voice and the passive voice, depending whether we want to emphasize the agent (who or what does the action) or the patient (who or what receives the action).

In the active voice, the grammar structure is AGENT ACTION PATIENT. For example:

Lee H. Osvald murdered John F. Kennedy.

In the passive voice, the grammar structure is PATIENT be ACTION [by AGENT], where «by AGENT» can be omitted (and it is often omitted). (In this text, the square brackets mean that the element can be omitted)

John F. Kennedy was murdered by Lee H. Osvald

Or simply

John F. Kennedy was murdered.

English writing style guides (and Microsoft Word) recommends the active voice: it is easier to understand and conveys more information because the agent cannot be omitted.

All the examples written above are statements of fact, that is, belong to the IS part of the IS-OUGHT distinction. They describe reality, how the world is (see here for more details).

In English, if we want to produce similar active or passive sentences but related to the OUGHT part (that is, describing morality, how the world should be), we have to use the modal verbs of obligation (such as should, ought to, have to).

In the modal active voice, we have something along the lines of AGENT should ACTION PATIENT:

You should not kill anybody [«Thou shalt not kill»]

Instead of AGENT should ACTION PATIENT, we can say «AGENT has an obligation/duty of ACTION to PATIENT»

  • You have the obligation of not killing anybody.
  • You have the obligation of respecting the life of anybody

This is the language of obligations: an alternative grammar structure for the active voice with modal verbs of obligation.

In the passive voice, the use of modal verbs of obligation produces something like PATIENT should be ACTION [by AGENT], where this last clause is optional

Nobody should be killed [by anybody]

Or, in a similar manner,

Everybody has the right not to be killed [by anybody]

Or, to say it in another way:

Everybody has the right to life (and here the agent cannot be added, although it is obvious)

So we see that the language of rights is only a linguistic form to express the OUGHT part in a passive sentence. It is an alternative grammar structure of a modal passive sentence. Instead of saying PATIENT should be ACTION [by AGENT], we say PATIENT has a right of ACTION [by AGENT], where the last clause can be omitted.

In short,

IS (verb without modals) OUGHT (modal verbs of obligation)
Active (1) AGENT ACTION PATIENT  (3) AGENT should ACTION PATIENT
AGENT has an obligation/duty of ACTION to PATIENT
Passive (2) PATIENT be ACTION [by AGENT] (4) PATIENT should be ACTION [by AGENT]
PATIENT has a right of ACTION [by AGENT]

(3b) is the language of obligations and (4b) is the language of rights.

Some examples:

(1) Children normally obey their parents

(2)  Parents are normally obeyed [by their children]

(3) Children should obey their parents (or «You have the duty to obey your parents»)

(4) Parents should be obeyed [by their children] or «Parents have the right to be obeyed [by their children]»

You may see that the formulation with the language of rights is the most convoluted, more difficult to understand and more prone to drop the clause «by their children». This makes it prone to manipulation. We are going to see all the ways it can be use to manipulate people.

So what’s the deal?

So if the language of rights and the language of obligations are logically equivalent, if it is the same content expressed in a different manner, what is the fuss about? Cannot we choose the language we like the most?

No, because human beings are not only rational and logical. The language we use shapes our thoughts, our feelings, our worldview. It makes easy to think some ideas and makes difficult to think some other ideas. You see this all around us: when the power wants to forbid an idea, invents a new word to make the idea seem ugly and immoral. We control the language but, in a certain way, the language controls us too. George Orwell explains this well in 1984.

An example of this is the translations from a language of obligations to a language of duties that appear above. These translations produce cumbersome sentences, that are difficult to think, remember or convert into mantras for propaganda or massive consumption.

So what are the consequences for the modern West to have chosen the language of rights instead of the language of obligations, like everyone else? We will see this in the next three installments.

 

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Language of obligations is straightforward. Has the following structure:  AGENT OBLIGATION BENEFICIARY. The object is often implicit but it is obvious to find out.

Language of obligations is SUBJECT has the right of RIGHT [by the AGENT] where «by the AGENT» is often dropped and not obvious to find out.

Who is the responsible to produce this right or obligation? Shall not litter. Muddles responsibility.

In fact, the language of rights makes easy to forget that there is somebody responsible, that there is some obligation. It seems that there are only disavantages.

This is why the left-wing parties and politicians in general speak of rights in the campaigns, because it seems something positive while an obligation is imposed on layers of the populations.

This is the fact why everybody is talking about his rights. It tries to impose obligations on the rest of society while disguising the fact that these obligations are being imposed. It is a manipulative action by normal people and politicians.

The right to pedophilia. These are the new rights. Only five years ago and it seems Moses. So you are a meanie denying a right.

In Western society, the concept of rights has scope creep. The rights of children, women, LGBTI, migrants… This is the way the power and the groups of pressure favored by the power imposes obligations to the majority of the population without noticing that an obligation has been imposed.

Fight people with each other.

As a result, the rights is a tool of parasitism. The right to education of bad students. Western civilization is invaded by a set of parasites that are incompatible with each other.

Without the tommyrot.

 

But what is a right, anyway. An obligation is easy to grasp:

Not a symmetry. It is a convoluted and manipulative way to talk about obligations.

Right after right, we are being put in chains.

 

 

Why did the West go to hell? Program

1 . Preliminaries

2. The Reform: the birth of relativism

3. The Puritans

4. What is a religion

5. The bourgeois revolutions

6. The new relativistic religion.

7. The awful concept of «right»

8. The new absolutist religion

9. How the religion changes.

10. Vatican II and the Catholic Church.

11. Our current world and the future

About the estimation of IT projects

https://www.quora.com/Why-are-software-development-task-estimations-regularly-off-by-a-factor-of-2-3

Let’s take a hike on the coast from San Francisco to Los Angeles to visit our friends in Newport Beach. I’ll whip out my map and draw our route down the coast:

The line is about 400 miles long; we can walk 4 miles per hour for 10 hours per day, so we’ll be there in 10 days. We call our friends and book dinner for next Sunday night, when we will roll in triumphantly at 6 p.m. They can’t wait!

We get up early the next day giddy with the excitement of fresh adventure. We strap on our backpacks, whip out our map, and plan our first day. We look at the map. Uh oh:

Wow, there are a million little twists and turns on this coast. A 40-mile day will barely get us past Half Moon Bay. This trip is at least 500, not 400 miles. We call our friends and push back dinner til Tuesday. It is best to be realistic. They are disappointed, but they are looking forward to seeing us. And 12 days from SF to LA still is not bad.

With that unpleasantness out of the way, we head off. Two hours later, we are barely past the zoo. What gives? We look down the trail:

Man, this is slow going! Sand, water, stairs, creeks, angry sea lions! We are walking at most 2 miles per hour, half as fast as we wanted. We can either start walking 20 hours per day, or we can push our friends out another week. OK, let’s split the difference: we’ll walk 12 hours per day and push our friends out til the following weekend. We call them and delay dinner until the following Sunday. They are a little peeved but say OK, we’ll see you then.

We pitch camp in Moss Beach after a tough 12 hour day. Shit, it takes forever to get these tents up in the wind. We don’t go to bed until midnight. Not a big deal: we’ll iron things out and increase velocity tomorrow.

We oversleep and wake up sore and exhausted at 10 a.m. Fuck! No way we are getting our 12 hours in. We’ll aim for 10, then we can do 14 tomorrow. We grab our stuff and go.

After a slow slog for a couple of hours, I notice my friend limping. Oh shit, blisters. We need to fix this now… we are the kind of team who nips problems in the bud before they slow our velocity. I jog 45 minutes, 3 miles inland to Pescadero, grab some band-aids, and race back to patch up my friend. I’m exhausted, and the sun is going down, so we bail for the day. We go to bed after only covering 6 miles for the day. But we do have fresh supplies. We’ll be fine. We’ll make up the difference tomorrow.

We get up the next morning, bandage up our feet and get going. We turn a corner. Shit! What’s this?

Goddamn map doesn’t show this shit! We have to walk 3 miles inland, around some fenced-off, federally-protected land, get lost twice, then make it back to the coast around noon. Most of the day gone for one mile of progress. OK, we are *not* calling our friends to push back again. We walk until midnight to try to catch up and get back on schedule.

After a fitful night of sleep in the fog, my friend wakes up in the morning with a raging headache and fever. I ask him if he can rally. «What do you think, asshole, I’ve been walking in freezing fog for 3 days without a break!» OK, today is a loss. Let’s hunker down and recover. Tomorrow we’ll ramp up to 14 hours per day since we’ll be rested and trained… it is only a few more days, so we can do it!

We wake up the next morning groggy. I look at our map:

Holy shit! We are starting day 5 of a 10 day trip and haven’t even left the Bay Area! This is ludicrous! Let’s do the work to make an accurate estimate, call our friends, probably get yelled at, but get a realistic target once and for all.

My friend says, well, we’ve gone 40 miles in 4 days, it is at least a 600 mile trip, so that’s 60 days, probably 70 to be safe. I say, «no f–ing way… yes, I’ve never done this walk before, but I *know* it does not take 70 days to walk from San Francisco to Los Angeles. Our friends are going to laugh at us if we call and tell them we won’t see them until Easter!

I continue, «if you can commit to walking 16 hours a day, we can make up the difference! It will be hard, but this is crunch time. Suck it up!» My friend yells back, «I’m not the one who told our friends we’d make it by Sunday in the first place! You’re killing me because you made a mistake!»

A tense silence falls between us. The phone call goes unmade. I’ll call tomorrow once my comrade regains his senses and is willing to commit to something reasonable.

The next morning, we stay in our tents till a rainstorm blows over. We pack our stuff and shuffle off at 10 a.m. nursing sore muscles and new blisters. The previous night’s fight goes unmentioned, although I snap at my idiot friend when he leaves his water bottle behind, and we have to waste 30 minutes going back to get it.

I make a mental note that we are out of toilet paper and need to stock up when we hit the next town. We turn the corner: a raging river is blocking our path. I feel a massive bout of diarrhea coming on…

Sobre l’estatus

Els economistes ens ensenyen en els seus llibres que l’economia no és un joc de  suma zero, on un ha de perdre perquè l’altre guanye. Es pot crear riquesa i que tots guanyen. Tenen raó però no es tracta d’això. Una vegada la gent te prou diners per viure bé, ja no es mou per diners: es mou per estatus.

L’estatus social és que et consideren bé, que et miren amb admiració, que et consideren algú ric, exitós, valuós…  L’home és un animal social i busca l’estatus del seu grup per damunt de tot. S’ha demostrat que la gent amb estatus es reprodueix més, amb la qual cosa passa el seu desig per estatus al seus fills i acabes amb una població orientada a buscar estatus.

El desig de l’estatus és biològic i només és superat per uns altres desitjos biològics, com l’alimentació, el sexe i l’amor als fills. El món està ple de gent que està tot el dia buscant pujar el seu estatus. Gràcies a Déu, com que jo sóc mig Asperger, estic lliure d’eixa pesadesa i em dona igual el que pensen de mi.

L’estatus es busca de diferents maneres. Buscant la riquesa, buscant l’èxit o el prestigi professional. Buscant que et consideren bona persona: això és el que feien els fariseus presumint que estaven en dejú en el temps de Jesús o els progres ara quan posen en les seues xarxes socials que són inclusius i tolerants (es diu «assenyalar virtut»)

Al contrari dels diners i la riquesa, l’estatus sí que és un joc de suma zero: perquè uns guanyen, uns altres han de perdre. No tots poden ser el primer del grup.

Jo he vist de gent d’esquerra criticant als rics latinoamericans (amb raó) dient: si feren que el poble latinoamericà fora més ric, ells també serien més rics.

Sí, però no es tracta de la riquesa. Es tracta de l’estatus. Un ric en Europa el tracten de forma normal. Un ric d’Amèrica Lllatina, li diuen señor, Don Ricardo i quasi li fan reverències (jo ho he vist moltes vegades). Supose que els rics d’Europa quan viatjaven a Amèrica Llatina i veien això es morien d’enveja i van pensar que és millor tindre una població pobre.

Es per això que la mare del president Kennedy, quan va vore que els seus sirvents tenien cotxe va dir: «Quin sentit té ser ric si la gent normal també té luxes?» Ella volia distingir-se en estatus tenint cotxe i que els altres no tingueren. Que els altres tingueren cotxe a ella no li produïa incomoditat, però li baixava l’estatus

El que tenim ara és una iniciativa de l’èlit per baixar l’estatus a tota la població de forma que ells tinguen més estatus. Es això el que hi ha darrere de tot

Tu no podràs menjar carn i ells sí. Tu menjaràs insectes i ells no
Tu no tindràs cotxe i ells tindran avió privat
Tu no podràs anar a Venècia i ells sí
Tu seràs pobre: viuràs en subsistència i ells viuran com a déus

I ells tindran tot el que vulguen de tu. Serà com els temps antics, que els rics feien el que volien dels pobres. Els pobres només feien tot el que volien per complaure als rics

I no es tracta de que ells vulguen que tu patisques. Es tracta de que volen ser més que tu. Volen augmentar el seu estatus encara més Es com la mare de Kennedy, volen tindre cotxe i que tu no en tingues

L’altre dia, van criticar a Bill Gates que anara en avió privat a un país africà. Ell va dir que havia donat molt diners per al canvi climàtic i tenia dret en anar en avió, perquè els programes que dirigia ajudaven al canvi climàtic

L’altre dia el príncep Harry (que diu tot el dia que cal limitar l’ús de l’avió i va a cagar amb avió privat) va desplaçar-se a no sé quin lloc amb l’avió privat del cantant Elton John. Quan el van criticar, Elton John va dir: «Però per este viatge amb avió, nosaltres hem fet una donació amb una ONG que lluita contra el canvi climàtic»

Ho tenim clar: ells podran anar amb avió privat, donant una miqueta dels diners que els sobra. Tu no podràs anar amb avió comercial, ni tindre cotxe. D’esta manera, ells seran déus i tu seràs un cuc. I la diferència en estatus serà cada vegada més gran

Es això el que hi ha darrere de totes les accions per empobrir la població. L’altre dia, Jerome Powell, president de la Reserva Federal (no es pot ser més del sistema que això) va reconéixer que les sancions a Rússia no havien funcionat.

Per què les sancions es mantenen llavors si estan fent mal als ciutadans europeus, encarint els preus? No només es mantenen sinó que estan planificant unes altres. Ja portem com 11 paquets de sancions

Es mantenen perquè empobreixen a la població europea, que és del que es tracta. Quan tots serem pobres, ells tindran més estatus

Ací hi ha un article interessant sobre el moviment trans.

Ahí veus la recerca de l’estatus. La gent es fa trans, perquè així puja el seu estatus en el seu grup social.

A vore, lo trans té moltes causes: hi ha gent que té problemes mentals i es creu del sexe oposat (disfòria de gènere), hi ha gent que s’excita vestint-se i presentant-se com a dona (autogenofilia), hi ha caradures (el nadador eixe que va guanyar medalles que no podria si no es declarara dona)

Però eixa epidèmia de trans que tenim, que han augmentat espectacularment, és sobretot busca d’estatus. Els mitjans han propagat que ser trans és ser algú especial, és tindre estatus i la gent fa qualsevol cosa per estatus, especialment els adolescents i joves.

També dir que un home és una dona és d’alt estatus. En general,  per l’estatus la gent diu coses progres mentre viu una vida tradicional. Són les creences de luxe. Ací hi ha un article que explica el tema.

Per l’estatus,  les mares són capaços de mutilar als seus fills. L’altre dia, Anna Grau, tertuliana de dreta, va entrar en una tertulia i va dir: «Aquí estoy en mi casa, con una criatura no binaria que está creciendo en mi casa, ji, ji, ji». Realment, ningú li havia preguntat i no venia a compte, (era una tertúlia política) però ella tenia que presumir que tenia una xiqueta que es proclamava com a «no binària». Això li donava estatus. Per això, la xiqueta ha de patir confussió en la seua sexualitat.

Per l’estatus, la gent regala el seu país i el futur dels seus fills als estrangers, perquè li consideren bona persona.

Per l’estatus, la gent presumeix de «ser agnòstic», perquè hui en dia ser catòlic és ser de baix estatus

Per l’estatus, la gent fa qualsevol cosa perquè no li diguen racista, sexista, homòfob, perquè eixes paraules signifiquen «eres de baix estatus »

Per l’estatus, la gent és d’esquerra. Gent de dreta és de ser baix estatus. Per això us deia l’altre dia que, si/quan  l’islam prenga el poder en Espanya, tots estos progres es convertirien a l’islam i presumirien de ser més islàmics que tot el món. Perquè llavors ser musulmà serà d’alt estatus.

Només es pot entendre el nostre món amb l’estatus. Es la clau per entendre-ho tot

En una societat sana, el bé té alt estatus i el mal té baix estatus. La nostra societat és al revés: el mal té alt estatus. Així destrossem la nostra societat només buscant l’estatus

Jesús criticava als fariseus perquè donaven almoina (limosna) en públic, perquè ho feien per estatus. Però, encara que ho feien pels motius equivocats (per estatus i no per compassió), els fariseus estaven fent algo bo. En una societat sana, el bé és alt estatus i la gent, quan busca l’alt estatus, està fent coses bones.

Hui per ser d’alt estatus has de mutilar al teu fill, posar-li hormones esterilitzadores i cagar-te en la seua vida per a sempre.

Estatus! Estatus! Estatus! La humanitat es retorça d’angoixa per tindre’n i per tindre’n més, com gent perduda en el desert que sospira per una gota d’aigua. Per tindre més estatus es fan els crims més grans, s’accepten les absurditats més ridícules. No hi ha cosa que no estem disposats a fer si ens dona més estatus, inclús cagar-nos en els nostres propis fills.